Girls To Grow

We now have another high school graduate in the house! Our younger daughter had her graduation ceremony on Friday night and it went well. She had to give a speech, which she finished writing on Friday afternoon. Putting it off until the last minute would have made me a nervous wreck, but she did a great job 🙂

I wasn’t real emotional at graduation, but I was totally exhausted and unmotivated on Saturday. Maybe that’s somehow related?? We still have her graduation party this Saturday, and then we head out on vacation next week. We’re all very much looking forward to that!!

In our Sunday School class during the month of June, we’re studying the book of Proverbs. As I was going through chapter one last week, verse 31 caught my attention. The writer is talking about what happens to the simple, the scorners, and the fools who refuse wisdom.

“Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices.“

The thought hit me that one of the worst things that can happen to us is for God to allow us to have our own way. Yet, so often, isn’t that exactly what we want? We don’t have the time or the inclination to slow down and see if what we want to do is truly wise. We fail to seek God’s leading about a particular decision because we’re already convinced we know what is best.

And then things don’t go the way we planned. People or circumstances change and what started out looking great turns out to be a trainwreck. Often natural consequences end up teaching us a very hard lesson.

In some of the surrounding verses in Proverbs 1, we see three potential dangers of having our own way.

Disaster

“I also will laugh at your calamity…” (verse 26a)

Suffering and distress are often at the end of that path we choose to walk without God. We refuse wisdom and misfortune finds us.

Fear

“I will mock when your fear cometh; When your fear cometh as desolation…” (verses 26-27)

When we’ve stepped outside of God’s leading, we don’t have the confidence that comes from trusting God and following His Word. That leaves us to figure things out on our own, and it’s easy to be afraid.

Not hearing from God

“Then shall they call upon me, but I will not answer; they shall seek me early, but they shall not find me:” (verse 28)

It’s hard to think about God not answering us when we call on Him. But if we’re not in fellowship with Him, if we’ve gone our own way, we can’t expect to hear from Him.

On the other hand, let’s look at three blessings we can have as we fear the Lord (verse 7) and seek after wisdom.

A spirit of wisdom

“…behold, I will pour out my spirit unto you, I will make known my words unto you.” (verse 23)

Don’t we all want a spirit of wisdom? God gives it freely as we fear Him and seek after it.

Security

“But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely…” (verse 33)

If we know we’re in God’s will, we can feel safe and secure. We have every right to rest in God’s promises and trust Him.

Peace

“But whoso hearkeneth unto me…shall be quiet from fear of evil.“

There are still distractions, suffering, and tragedy if we’re following after wisdom. Choosing to fear the Lord doesn’t exempt us from life’s troubles. But God gives us peace in the midst of them. As we follow Him, we know we’re not alone.

You and I, we get to choose. Are we going to fear God and seek wisdom or are we going to go our own way? I hope that God will work in our hearts so that we won’t be classified as the simple or the fool! May we choose God’s way and submit to His leading so that we’re not left to our own devices.

Related posts:

• 10 Traits of a Wise Woman
• 8 Ways to Know if We Have Godly Wisdom
• 5 Powerful Promises from God’s Word for You

From where I sit in coastal South Carolina, summer weather has arrived! There’s lots of sunshine and we’ve already been up to 90 degrees a few days. We used to head to the beach one morning of Memorial Day weekend, but with both girls now having to be at work in the early afternoon, we’ve abandoned that tradition. I am planning for chicken wings and maybe hot dogs on the grill for Monday night’s supper, though!

I suppose this has been a lifelong struggle for me, but it has seemed more pronounced lately. Do you ever deal with shame and guilt? Maybe I read a post like last week’s on 5 Things to Do Today to Be a Virtuous Woman. I realize that I’m failing in some way and feel guilty. Or I see another mom with a larger family and more obligations than I have who’s constantly ministering in church. And I’m ashamed that I’m not doing more for the Lord.

When I was in that spot yesterday morning, I was drawn to Romans 8. It’s funny because I was actually looking for a passage that is in Romans 7. But as soon as I saw the first verse of chapter 8, I knew it was exactly what I needed.

“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.“

Because I have trusted Him as my Savior, I am in Christ Jesus. I am not going to be judged, pronounced guilty, or eternally punished for my sin. There is no need for me to feel guilt or shame. God is for me. He knows my heart and He also knows my flesh.

“The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy...He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities. For as the heaven is high above the earth, so great is his mercy toward them that fear him. As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us. Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord pitieth them that fear him. For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we are dust.” ~Psalm 103:8, 10-14

What an encouragement this Psalm is for us!! God is patient and longsuffering. He reproves us when we knowingly sin against Him, but never to the degree that we deserve. His mercy is far above our human understanding. We are fully pardoned, and He has compassion for us in our weakness and frailty.

As I continued reading in Romans 8, I found encouragement that I’ll come back to when those emotions of shame and guilt come calling!

We are free from the bondage of sin because of the power of the cross.

“For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh; That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us…” ~Verses 2-4

We could never have kept the law to earn our salvation. That gift is ours only because God’s Son came and took the penalty for our sin. And in our Christian life, we don’t earn His favor by striving hard to keep a list of rules. It’s all of grace, the “work” He did to save us, and the work He does to sanctify us.

God’s love, grace, mercy and goodness are continual blessings in our lives.

“He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?” ~Verse 32

Freely give. It’s true not only of salvation, but of all the good things He allows – and wants – us to enjoy.

The Holy Spirit – the same one who raised Jesus from the dead – lives inside us and gives us the power to live the Christian life.

“And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness. But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.” ~Verses 10-11

“…if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.” ~Verse 13

The Spirit within us gives us the ability to subdue our fleshly desires and live a righteous life. And beyond that, He will one day revive our physical bodies so that they can live with God forever.

Nothing can separate you and me from God’s love.

“For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” ~Verses 38-39

Can a truth be more simple yet more profound? We can’t be separated from God’s love.

The next time guilt and shame try to push their way into your mind, I hope these truths will help you fend them off. And since I also find that music helps get my thinking straight, here’s the song that encouraged me yesterday morning. It reminded me to live daily in the power of what Jesus accomplished for me on the cross.

Related posts:

• 5 Truths about God’s Love for Me
• 7 Truths about Finding Joy in God’s Word
• For the Woman Who Feels Like She’s Never Enough

Welcome to the blog on this mid-May morning! We’ve done a switcheroo at our house this week – our older daughter is now home from college while our younger daughter is off on her Senior trip for eight days. One thing’s for certain about this season of life; things are always changing!

As part of my morning Bible time, I review passages of Scripture that I’ve memorized in the past. I’ve recently started using the Verses app to do this and I’m really enjoying it. This week I’m working on Proverbs 31, which leads me to the topic of today’s post.

I’m always inspired and yet convicted by this chapter. The virtuous woman described here seems to have it all together in every area of her life. And yet I know myself and, let’s just say that I don’t. But I want to become more like her if that means I’ll be a blessing to my family and a better testimony for my Savior.

I’ve done a deeper dive into this passage in the past, but today I just wanted to choose five very practical things each of us can do today that can help us become more like this virtuous woman.

1. Be dependable.

“The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.” ~Verse 11

It doesn’t take any special skill or particular talent to be dependable. Anyone can do it. It’s just a matter of ensuring that other people can trust you because you do what you say you will do.

In this particular verse, it’s referring to her husband being able to rely on her. He knows his wife is responsible. He doesn’t have to worry about how she’s running their home. Could our husbands say this about us – that we are trustworthy and faithful when it comes to managing the resources we have?

2. Take care of your body.

“She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.” ~Verse 17

In the New Testament, we’re told that our body is the temple of the Holy Ghost. [1 Corinthians 6:19-20] We only get one body. In order to accomplish all that’s on this woman’s list, she has to be strong. There’s no way a woman could do all these things if she’s not in good health mentally, physically, and emotionally.

We all know what to do. Sleep. Drink water. Eat well. Move our bodies in some way. But let this be our encouragement to set aside time to take care of ourselves on a regular basis.

3. Look for someone you can help.

“She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.” ~Verse 20

This doesn’t have to be a big, noteworthy deed. Just keep your eyes open as you go through your day. Notice people. More than money, someone may just need a smile or a word of encouragement. Seek to bless others.

4. Think before you speak.

“She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.” ~Verse 26

This may be the one I most aspire to – consistently speaking with wisdom and kindness. Too often that’s not how my words would be described. I think especially of how I want my children to remember the ways in which I spoke to them. We certainly need the Holy Spirit’s help to control our tongue.

5. Use your time wisely.

“She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.” ~Verse 27

There are lots of things that can take up our time. Mine tends to be Instagram scrolling (which is why I try to limit how many people I follow there). Maybe you get wrapped up in Facebook or Netflix. It’s okay to take some time to relax and recharge, but let’s be purposeful about it. This woman knew what was going on in her home and with her people because she stayed engaged and wasn’t lazy.

Can you focus on one or more of these as you go throughout your day? Are there other ways the virtuous woman is described that inspire you? While we may not feel like we can check off many of her traits in our own lives, may God help us to continue growing in each of these areas.

Related posts:

• 10 Traits of a Wise Woman
• 5 Daily Practices for the Christian Woman
• For the Woman Who Feels Like She’s Never Enough

Welcome to Girls to Grow, whether it’s your first visit or you’ve been reading here for a long time. I appreciate your stopping by the blog!

We have a couple of exciting events here this week. Our high school senior performs in her school play Thursday and Friday nights, and our college sophomore is heading home from Florida on Friday. (Praying that they will be able to find gasoline along the way!)

From the title of today’s post, you know that we’re talking about sin. I’m thinking that’s not generally a popular topic! Sure, we’d all agree that we’re sinners [Romans 3:23], but we don’t always like to be confronted with our specific sins. And what I want to delve into are sins that we may have grown comfortable with. Or at least I know that’s what can happen in my case.

Some of them are things that perhaps, in and of themselves, aren’t sin. Yet when we value them more than surrendering to what God wants for us, they can become idols in our lives.

Because I get to go first here, I’m going to share some examples from my own life. These may or may not be issues that you struggle with.

• Wanting others to think that I’m a “good” mom. This is the one that got this whole post idea started. Too often my focus is on other people’s opinions. I can feel that people judge me based on what our daughters do or don’t do. So while I want our girls to act a certain way or make good choices because it’s right, I also want them to do it in order to reflect well on me. (And let’s face it, at 18 and 20, I have limited-to-no control over them at this point.)

• My schedule or routine. Having a schedule or a routine is a good thing. But sometimes I can put my to-do list or my plan ahead of meeting someone’s needs. I fail to heed the “divine interruptions” God brings into my day and miss ministry opportunities.

• Comparison. I’ve written about this one before. We can use comparison to make us feel better or worse about ourselves, though with me it’s usually the former. Wouldn’t it be preferable to live in contentment?

• Perfectionism. It’s not bad to want to do your best. But I can easily slide into, “It’s never good enough” or “It doesn’t count unless it’s perfect” or even “I’m always right.”

• Comfort. I just want to be comfortable. But maybe that means I avoid something I know God is calling me to do.

Do you relate to any of these? If not, what would be on your list? Is there a sin you’ve grown comfortable living with? Maybe it’s pride or fear or worry.

So how can we get victory in these areas? Here are five steps we can take.

1. Recognize areas where you’re weak.

Pray and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal them. Read your Bible and listen to Godly preaching so that God’s Word can work in your heart.

“All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:” ~2 Timothy 3:16

2. Realize you can’t overcome sin on your own.

We couldn’t save ourselves eternally. Jesus had to die to pay the penalty for our sin. In so doing, He also provided us a way to no longer serve sin in our daily lives.

“Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.” ~Galatians 5:1

Never doubt that God has the power to help us overcome sin.

“…greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world.” ~1 John 4:4

3. Refuse to listen to yourself; instead, talk to yourself.

My husband shared that quote with me. If I listen to myself, I will spiral downward with my thoughts. Instead I need to tell myself truth. Here’s where having those Bible verses we’ve memorized come into play.

“Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted in me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance.” ~Psalm 42:5

4. Retrain your mind by getting rid of old habits and building new ones.

If going on social media causes me to compare myself with others, maybe I need to cut back on the time I spend there. Instead of wondering what others think about me, I can make it a point to reach out and encourage someone else.

5. Rest in God’s grace.

When we find ourselves succumbing to a recurring sin again, go to God for forgiveness. Ask for His mercy and the strength to live for Him. God’s grace will always be there for us.

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” ~1 John 1:9

May we not allow ourselves to grow comfortable with the sin in our lives, but continue to grow in our pursuit of holiness.

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• How to Make Our Words and Thoughts Pleasing to God
• Releasing Yourself from the Comparison Trap
• Lessons on Humility from a Person Who Battles Pride

May has arrived! I feel like it kind of snuck in the back door – I’m still back around Easter somewhere! However, I’m excited about what’s ahead in the next few weeks. There are some fun milestones for our high school senior and our college daughter will be coming home for the summer. What a blessing that she got a full spring semester at college this year after having it cut short in 2020.

Do you have any life changes ahead? Obviously, mine is an eminent empty nest! I don’t know exactly what September 2021 is going to look like. Lord willing, both of our daughters will be off at college. I’ll definitely be starting a new chapter, one where I don’t need to be on call to rescue anyone during the school day or make a last-minute run to the grocery store for lunchbox supplies or be at the ball field by 4pm for a game.

When it comes to all the time I think I’ll have on my hands, my guess is that it will be like when we sent our girls off to kindergarten. Beforehand, I thought, “Wow I’m going to have so much time to get all the things done!” Yet somehow, when it happened, I didn’t seem to have much more time at all! And I’m guessing that this transition may be similar.

But I know God has a plan for the days ahead. Perhaps you have a different kind of transition coming your way. Maybe it’s a move or a job change or a new ministry opportunity. As we look to move forward into God’s plan for us, here are five things we can know for sure.

1. God’s plan is good for us.

“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” ~Romans 8:28

This often-quoted verse is often quoted because the truth of it is so grounding and reassuring. God works all things together for good. It may not always feel good to us in the moment. Yet as part of His orchestrated plan, each thing we encounter will turn out for our ultimate good.

I like that Paul says, “we know.” That defines our part of the plan clearly – it’s to trust God. He is good and only does what is best for us. [You may want to revisit ten things we can know about God’s goodness.]

2. God’s plan will bring glory to Him.

“If any man speak, let him speak as the oracles of God; if any man minister, let him do it as of the ability which God giveth: that God in all things may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be praise and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.” ~1 Peter 4:11

The God we love and serve deserves all glory. Therefore, any plan that He unfolds in our lives will be one that brings glory to Him. If we find ourselves stepping out in any direction that goes against that, we can know it’s not part of God’s plan for us.

3. God will direct us into His plan.

“A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps.” ~Proverbs 16:9

It’s wonderful if we have hopes and dreams for our lives. And we can make plans and decisions that move ourselves toward those goals. But we need to hold them with a loose hand. We must always be willing to turn them over to God if we sense that He is leading us in another direction.

As this verse says, ultimately God directs our steps. It’s not easy to give up what we see as our sense of control. But as we trust Him, recognize His leadership, and don’t depend on our own understanding, He will make our way clear. [Proverbs 3:5-6]

4. God’s plan will unfold in His time.

“The Lord is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him.” ~Lamentations 3:25

I’m so thankful that I can count on God’s timing to be perfect. Otherwise, I’m sure I’d have messed up a lot of things in my life, arranging them to fit into my timetable. Let’s rest in the truth that, “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:” [Ecclesiastes 3:1]

5. God will equip us to fulfill His plan.

“For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ…That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man;” ~Ephesians 3:14,16

As God reveals our next step in His plan, we may be overwhelmed. Our first thought might be, “I don’t have the ability to do that!”

And you would be right. But remember this. “Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it.” [1 Thessalonians 5:24] He’s not asking you to do it on your own. God, who has all strength and power, will do it through you.

In fact, that’s the best way for it to happen. Otherwise, we’d be tempted to take credit ourselves, to be proud of our efforts. But we are just the tool He can use here to accomplish His purpose. Let’s ask Him for the ability to perform His plan.

Whatever season we’re in, whatever change may be on the horizon, may we trust God to equip us as He directs us into His good plan in His own time and for His glory.

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Welcome back! Last week I was out of town visiting family, so there wasn’t a new post here on Wednesday. But today we’re getting back to our theme for April, which is God’s Word.

In my family growing up, making a promise was a big deal. We were always expected to keep our word, and making a promise was something we didn’t do lightly. That’s carried over to my adult life, and we’ve tried to teach our children that same principle.

If you’ve ever had someone make you a promise, and then not follow through, you know that it can be hard to trust that person again. Yet we understand that sometimes things happen that are outside of a person’s control that cause a promise to be broken. What a blessing that we never have to worry about God keeping the promises He makes in the Bible!

“Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised;)” ~Hebrews 10:23

I like this definition of the word promise that I found at Christianity.com. “A promise is a covenant or declaration that one will do exactly what they say or something will happen just as pledged.” When we find promises in God’s Word, we can have full assurance that God will do exactly what He says He will do.

Let’s look at five promises we find in the Bible to encourage us today!

1. God will never leave us nor forsake us.

“Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” ~Hebrews 13:5

We will never be alone. God is with us in every trial we face. In the dark and messy places of life, He is there. It doesn’t matter if we feel His presence continually or not. We know He is there because He said He would be. What comfort we can find in this promise!

2. God will meet our needs.

“But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” ~Philippians 4:19

Our Heavenly Father knows exactly what our needs are. Even greater, He has the means to meet everyone of them. And doesn’t He give us so many of our wants as well?

While our first thought might be of material or physical needs, He also has the power to meet our spiritual needs. For example, the Holy Spirit brings an appropriate Bible verse to mind when we’re tempted or when we need comfort. God is able to provide peace and joy when our hearts are heavy. Every type of need we have can be met by God.

3. God gives us everything that is good for us.

“For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.” ~Psalm 84:11

How many times have we thought we knew what was good for us, only to see in hindsight that if we’d gotten what we wanted, it would not have ended well? That’s what is so great about what God gives us. We can know that it’s always and truly for our benefit.

“The blessing of the Lord, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.” ~Proverbs 10:22

4. Through God, we can have victory over sin.

“Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.” ~1 John 4:4

The pull of sin and our flesh is strong. But the power of God is greater. We must learn not to rely on ourselves and our strength, but to claim God’s promise and act on it.

“I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” ~Philippians 4:13

5. God gives us wisdom when we ask for it.

“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.” ~James 1:5

Ask and He’ll give wisdom. That seems so simple…but we have to remember to ask. When we want to make that decision or correct that child or confront that boss in our own wisdom, it can take a wrong turn pretty quickly. But here we have an open invitation to ask for the wisdom we need for any situation – and we can have faith that we’ll receive it.

There are literally thousands of promises in God’s Word. Do you have a personal favorite? I think it would be encouraging if we wrote down the times we see a promise of God fulfilled in our own life. Maybe I need to add a page for that in my gratitude journal! What a blessing it would be to look back over that in years to come and remember God’s faithfulness in keeping His promises.

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• 10 Things We Can Know About God’s Goodness
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It’s hard to believe that we’re already a week into April! These are some precious days, these last couple of months that I will have a child in school. So many “lasts” are on our horizon. As I wrote in my journal this weekend, I want to make a conscious effort to enjoy each one and not just let them slip by.

Our theme on the blog for April is going to be God’s Word. I may not be able to fit all that I want to talk about into a month, so we may revisit this theme later!

Have you ever been in total darkness? Some years ago, my husband and I visited Luray Caverns in Virginia. We went on a guided tour, and at one point, our guide turned off his light so that we could appreciate how dark it was down inside the cave. It was creepy! As the saying goes, you really couldn’t see your hand in front of your face. I could feel the darkness, and was very glad that he didn’t leave his light off for long!

We all appreciate a little light in the darkness. This familiar verse reminds us that, in life, God’s Word gives us light.

“Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.” ~Psalm 119:105

So how can God’s Word be a lamp for our feet and a light for our path? Here are five ways.

1. It gives us direction.

A light helps us know where we want to put our foot down next. We don’t want to step in a puddle or a hole or on top of a snake! If we’re walking along in the dark with no light to guide us, we can also easily get lost.

When we need direction in life, we can find it in God’s Word. “Order my steps in thy word: and let not any iniquity have dominion over me.” ~Psalm 119:133

Often, we get just enough light for the next step, not a spotlight on the whole road ahead. Sure, it would be nice to have everything mapped out, but following Christ one step at a time builds our faith.

2. It gets rid of darkness.

In this case, the darkness I’m referring to is sin. “Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.” ~Psalm 119:11

When we’re tempted, we can run to Scripture and focus our minds on it. The more we memorize and meditate on God’s Word, the more ammunition we’ll have to fight our flesh and the Devil when they attack us.

We’re a lot less likely to trip and fall when we have light to walk by. Not only does the Bible help us fight sin, it also gives us discernment so that we can avoid temptation in the first place.

3. It brings comfort.

“I remembered thy judgments of old, O Lord; and have comforted myself.” ~Psalm 119:52

In Friday’s e-mail post, I mentioned how the Holy Spirit brought to mind a specific Bible verse when I was struggling with disappointment. Likely many of us have run to the Psalms when we need encouragement or just to hear from someone we feel like empathizes with our hurt or pain. On our dark and down days, we can find comfort in God’s Word.

4. It reveals the path to eternal life.

“And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.” ~2 Timothy 3:15

The Bible tells us how to be saved. From John 3:16 to the “Romans Road” verses, anyone can come to know Jesus as their Savior. Each of us can make the decision to turn from the darkness of sin to the light of the gospel.

5. It shows us that we need God’s help in every area of our lives.

As Christians, we may have a tendency to think that we can handle marriage, parenting, and just generally living a Godly life in our own strength. But the light of God’s Word reminds us that we need Jesus to help us in everything we do.

If we lack wisdom, we ask Him for it. [James 1:5] Have a particular weakness? God can show His strength through it. [2 Corinthians 12:9-10] Struggle with worry? He can handle that, too if we’ll take it to Him in prayer. [Philippians 4:6-7]

These are fundamental truths from Psalm 119:105, but they can so easily be applied to the exact situations we find ourselves in today. May we allow God’s Word to guide our steps and light our way as we seek to follow Him.

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It’s hard to believe we’re closing out March today! We’ve definitely had some spring-like weather here lately. I walk outside in our neighborhood most days, and it’s been fun to see which trees and plants are newly blooming and budding each week.

Our focus on the blog this month has been praising God. We’ll close out this series today by focusing on how we can praise God when life is difficult.

There’s a long list of things that can make certain seasons of life hard. Let’s list some of them.

• sickness – your own or a family member’s
• death of someone you love
• job loss
• financial troubles
• discouragement
• disappointment
• frustration with a current situation
• marriage problems
• parenting struggles
• difficult co-workers
• uncertainty about a medical issue
• feeling lost spiritually
• unmet expectations

And sometimes we have more than one of these happening at the same time!

So how do we praise God on those days…days when we feel overwhelmed, helpless, or hopeless? Here are five ideas.

1. Focus on God’s character.

What we face from one life season to another will change, but God never does. Get into His Word. Write down and meditate on Bible verses that tell you Who God is.

2. Recount His faithfulness in your life.

I think almost every post this month has included this point, but it’s so true. Think back to past trials, times when you hit a rough patch and God came through for you. Remind yourself that God has been steadfast and constant in His deliverance and provision.

3. Make a conscious decision to trust Him.

Now, when it’s hard, is the time to prove your faith. We can’t see behind the scenes to how He is working. We don’t know how or when our difficult circumstances will end. So just decide right there in the middle of it to have faith and trust God.

4. Be grateful.

As the hymn writer says, count your blessings. Are there days when the silver lining is so thin you can barely see it? You bet. But you’ll never see it if you’re not looking. Before you get out of bed each morning, mentally give thanks for something. Do like I do and keep a gratitude journal. Every day write down at least three things for which you’re thankful.

5. Reach out to others.

This one is two-pronged. First of all, ask someone you love and trust to pray for you or with you about what you’re facing. Pray for a proper perspective on the problem. If they’ve been through something similar, they can empathize. They can come alongside you and help you offer praise.

Secondly, see who there is around you who could use your help. Give someone else a reason to praise God because you’ve been a blessing to them!

When life is difficult, we can still worship our Lord and praise our God. I like how Habakkuk sums it up.

“Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labor of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls: Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation.” [3:17-18]

(In Friday’s subscriber e-mail I’ll be talking about a verse I’ve read many times that came to mean something new and personal to me in light of a recent disappointment. If you’re not already subscribed, you can do so here.)

Related posts:

• When You Don’t Feel Like Giving Thanks
• 6 Ways to Find Hope When Times Are Tough
• 4 Tips to Help You Count Your Blessings