Girls To Grow

Nurturing moms in their walk with God

  • Home
  • About
  • Contact
  • Parenting
  • Stuff I Like
  • Ebook
  • Email Sign Up

3 Prayers to Pray As We Learn to Let Go of Our Teenagers

November 12, 2019 by Tracey 5 Comments

It’s a good thing that letting go of our children is a gradual process. First, we walk them into kindergarten. Later, we drive them to their first sleepover, and eventually, they take off for a week at camp.

Our oldest daughter has been away at college for almost three months now. I confess that I’m still in the process of learning to let her go. Over the weekend, my husband and I were discussing a decision she will be facing at some point, and he said, “You do realize how little control you have over this situation, don’t you?”

Well yes, yes I do, but that doesn’t make it easy! However, I’m so thankful I have him to keep me grounded about these things. And I realized the truth of what he said – that I was fretting over things I couldn’t control. When that happens, I know it’s time to take it to God in prayer.

I’ve written before about praying God’s Word over our children and about journaling prayers for our children. As I thought about how I wanted to apply that to this process of letting go, I took three of my favorite – and very familiar – verses, and wrote out prayers from them.

1. Philippians 4:6-7

“Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

These were the first verses that came to mind because I KNEW I was worrying over a particular situation. Here’s my prayer (or at least the general idea of it. The one I actually wrote out has a few specific details that I’m not sharing here.)

Dear Lord, Help me not to worry about this decision our daughter is making. Thank you that I can bring it to you in prayer. I’m also thankful that she is learning to be independent. Please give her wisdom and discernment as she handles this situation. Most of all, may you be honored and glorified with the outcome. Give me your peace regarding this area of my daughter’s life, I pray.

2. Proverbs 3:5-6

“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”

These verses have been such an encouragement to me through much of my life.

God, I trust you to work in my daughter’s life and to do what you know is best for her. I may not understand your ways, but I believe that you love and care for her even more than I do. May she seek your will and allow you to direct her steps. Help her to follow the commands in these verses and know the peace and joy that come from trusting you.

3. Romans 8:26-28

“Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.

And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.

And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”

Sometimes I know exactly how I need to pray about something. But there are other situations I’ve faced in life in which I haven’t been totally clear on how I should pray. But the Holy Spirit knows the mind of God, and He can intercede on my behalf.

Heavenly Father, I’m not even sure how to pray about this situation in my daughter’s life. May your Holy Spirit guide me in how to pray and direct my prayer. You know far better than I what is best for her. I ask that your will would be done. Thank you for the assurance that you can work all things together for her good and for your own honor and praise.

We will always be parents and hopefully will continue to have influence in our children’s lives. But as they take steps toward independence, may we be faithful in turning our concerns over to God in prayer and trusting Him to do His work in them.

Related posts:

  • 5 Prayers to Pray for Your Children Every Day
  • 7 Steps to Becoming a Wise Woman: Trust God
  • 10 Prayers to Pray for Your Daughter

Sign up here for weekly blog updates!

Filed Under: Parent

Comments

  1. Nikki says

    November 14, 2019 at 9:42 am

    Since we plan to homeschool through high school, I imagine it will be very difficult when my oldest child goes off to college. I’m not looking forward to that! But I will keep these verses in mind for that time. 🙂

    Reply
    • Tracey says

      November 14, 2019 at 10:28 am

      It’s definitely an interesting season of life! You miss them so much, yet you’re thankful that they’re gaining independence and stepping out into exploring what God will do in their lives.

      Reply
  2. Missie says

    November 15, 2019 at 2:22 am

    Thank you! I so love and needed this!!!!

    Reply
    • Tracey says

      November 15, 2019 at 7:26 am

      You’re welcome!! Need this myself on a daily basis right now 😉

      Reply
  3. Sues says

    December 4, 2019 at 11:04 pm

    These are so powerful! Yes yes yes!!!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Welcome! I'm Tracey, wife and mom to two teenage girls. I seek to help Christian moms raise children who know, love, and serve God by sharing Biblical wisdom, helpful tips, and practical advice. Read More…

Let’s Connect!

As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.

Top Posts

  • 10 "Don'ts" for Moms of Teenage Girls
  • A Letter to My Teenage Daughter: God Made You Special
  • A Letter to My Teenage Daughter: I Think One Day You'll Understand
  • 13 Things I Want My 13 Year-Old Daughter to Know
  • 10 Simple But Powerful Pieces of Life Advice for Teenagers (that work for their parents, too)

Search the blog

Privacy Policy

Click here for our privacy policy.

Copyright © 2023 · Lifestyle Pro Child Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in