Well, we turned around, and November arrived!! I’ve gotten into shopping mode around here because not only is Christmas on the horizon, but both of our daughters have early December birthdays. While they usually give me some ideas for presents, I still like to find a few things that will surprise them.

As I’ve been online shopping, I came up with twenty-five things that might make good gifts for the women on your Christmas list. There’s a wide variety of categories and most items should be under $50.

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1. Sugar Belle Candles.

I found these candles while shopping with my mom last year. I bought the Bartlett Pear Mason Jar Candle and liked it so much that I went to their website to order more. My most recent purchase was the Apple Cider Donut and it’s a wonderful fall scent!

2. Soma pajamas.

Just last week I mentioned these as a favorite thing in my newsletter, but they also earned a spot on this list! Watch for sales; you can also sign up to receive coupons.

3. Long Brass Locket Necklace.

This long necklace is simple but pretty and would be a great accessory for so many outfits.

4. Joy Creative Shop Personalized Stationery.

What makes these cute cards, notepads, and other paper goods even better is that they can be personalized.

5. The Pioneer Woman 2-Piece Baker Set.

You might find yourself looking forward to cooking when you can serve your food in these dishes! They come in four patterns. I like the spring bouquet.

6. Cable Knit Scarf, Beanie Hat, and Gloves Set.

This set comes in several colors and would be perfect for braving some winter weather in style.

7. Personalized Bible.

Order a Bible and have her name imprinted on the front.

8. Bliss Plush Throw.

You’ll find lots of positive reviews for this blanket! It comes in a number of color choices.

9. Fab Fit Fun Box.

You can give this as a one-time gift or a yearly subscription. Choose from home goods, beauty and wellness products, as well as fashion items.

10. The Next Right Thing Guided Journal.

If you know someone who likes to journal, this is a wonderful gift. I bought it for myself in January and write in it every Sunday afternoon. The prompts are great and I already enjoy looking back over the last ten months at all that I’ve recorded.

11. Five Crowns Card Game.

Our older daughter and her boyfriend introduced us to this game and it’s so much fun to play! It’s similar to Phase 10, but takes less time to play.

12. Cable Knit Cardigan Sweater.

I first saw this in sage, but it’s available in a number of colors.

13. 4 Things Personalized Tote Bag.

I really like personalized gifts. You can choose four of the recipient’s favorite things and have them printed on the front of the canvas tote bag. What would mine say? Maybe Books. Family. Mexican Food. Travel. Or I could go with Chocolate. Podcasts. Mountains. Georgia Bulldogs. 🙂

14. Faux Succulents in Pots, set of 4.

My girls have live succulents in their dorm rooms. I think they’ve had to replace a couple, so I see this faux version as saving money in the long run!

15. Beauty Box Jetsetter Edition in Rose Gold.

If you know someone who enjoys playing around with makeup (definitely my younger daughter!), this would make a great gift.

16. Gift Box from Nana’s Gourmet Goodies.

If you’re buying for someone who won’t be visiting for the holidays you can ship them one of these gift boxes. I’ve sent them to my older daughter in college several times. They offer all sorts of baked goods including cookies, brownies, scones, cakes, popcorn treats, and more! The ones I’ve ordered have always been delivered promptly.

17. Lands End Supima Cotton Towel Set.

These are my new favorite bath towels. The set is a splurge at full price, so definitely watch for a sale. When I last ordered, most colors were 50% off.

18. Suede Moccasin Slippers.

I had a pair very similar to these that I wore for several years. I’m in the market for a new pair now and plan to check these out this week.

19. Marble State Coasters.

These are so pretty and you can choose your state or other patterns. These Slate Coasters are also a good option.

20. Lauren Conrad Simulated Pearl and Floral Teardrop Nickel Free Earrings.

So dainty, yet they still make a statement. For something simpler, check out these Twisted Open Teardrop Earrings or these Nine West Wavy Flat Hoops.

21. Welcome Home: A Cozy Minimalist Guide to Decorating and Hosting All Year Round by Myquillyn Smith.

Have a friend or relative who enjoys decorating and hosting people in her home? I feel sure she would enjoy this book. I’m not much of a home decorator myself, but I loved this book! Myquillyn has a great philosophy for seasonal decorating and includes many practical tips.

22. Reversible Faux Leather Tote and Wristlet.

A number of fashion bloggers I follow have shared good things about this tote. It also has lots of positive reviews!

23. Teak Wooden Spoon Set for Cooking.

Here’s another pretty kitchen item to inspire your cooking.

24. Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Socks.

As someone whose feet are always cold, these sound like an amazing gift!

25. Leather Crossbody Purse.

How cute is this purse? It looks like a perfect size if you’ve streamlined what you want to carry. I also like this Striped Canvas Crossbody/Shoulder Bag if you need something a bit larger.

Whether you’ve already finished your shopping or don’t plan to start until the week before Christmas, I hope you enjoy checking out a few of these items. Maybe you’d even like to do a little shopping for yourself 🙂

If you have any gifts that you enjoy giving, please share them in the comments below. They might be just what I need to finish off my list!

Welcome, friends! I hope you’re doing well and enjoying some beautiful weather like we are here in coastal South Carolina.

Are you even ready to acknowledge that October arrives on Friday? It’s one of my favorite months of the year, probably because it feels the most “fall-ish” to me. The temperatures are fairly moderate and while we don’t get much fall color on the trees around here, whatever we do get hits this month.

We also know we’re heading into one of the busiest times of the year. It seems like I blink and we go from October 1st to January 2nd. It’s crazy, but a good crazy!

How do you handle a busy season in life? Yes, this can mean the holidays. But there are plenty of other occasions that send us into overdrive. How about moving? Planning a wedding? Having a baby? All of these fill our days with tasks and events that are outside of our normal routine.

Most of the time (but not always), we get a little bit of notice that a busy season is coming. That’s great because it gives us an opportunity to think ahead about how we want things to look. We can at least lay out a plan for how we hope those days will go. It’s easier to be intentional and strategize when we’re not quite in the thick of it yet!

Today let’s look at ten tips that can help us plan ahead when we see one of those busy life seasons on the horizon.

1. Determine how you’re going to keep God at the center of it all.

Don’t let the busyness crowd out your daily time with Him. Whether it’s part of your morning or evening routine, guard that time. Be faithful in attending church. Listen to good Chrisitan music and podcasts while you’re running all those errands, wrapping gifts, or packing boxes.

2. Align your expectations with reality.

Simplify. If it’s the holidays we’re talking about, that could include the gift-giving, the shopping, the baking, the decorating, all of it. Whatever the situation, figure out what you can actually accomplish in a certain time period and be good with that.

3. Plan now for three specific things you want to happen.

Buy the tickets for the Christmas concert. Put the date on your calendar when you need to order the parts of the Thanksgiving meal you don’t want to make. Plan the pre-wedding mother/daughter shopping trip. Choose the three most meaningful things for this season and schedule them now.

4. Take into consideration what those around you will want or need.

Is it a busy time at work for your husband? Do you have family members that need accommodations? Take time beforehand to think through how the other people who are part of this season will be involved.

5. Tell others what you need.

Ask someone to bake the Christmas cookies. If a friend volunteers to help with your move, give them a specific task to do. Often your family is willing to help if you’ll just let them know what to do. Communicate clearly what you’re going to need during this hectic time.

6. Embrace spontaneity.

This isn’t me. I’m good with the planning and then all I want to do is stay on task. But if our girls come in while I’m in the middle of a project and want to run to Crumbl, I hope I’ll jump in the car and go.

7. Go to bed.

In other words, get sleep. The more rested you can be before and during the busy season, the better you’ll be able to move through it.

8. Set small goals.

I love to-do lists. But I tend to make them much longer than I can realistically accomplish in one day! Set a few daily or weekly goals of tasks that need to be done and enjoy that feeling of accomplishment when you cross them off your list!

9. Let the little stuff go.

When life is busy, focus on the most important things. If the laundry piles up or it’s cereal for supper, it’s okay. This is temporary.

10. Pray.

The list of what we can’t control in any season is long…the weather, the mail (recent personal experience), someone getting sick, etc. But God IS in control. Ask for His wisdom and guidance for your plans and for the strength to accomplish what needs to be done in the moment.

I’m sure that some of you have survived more busy life seasons than I have! Let us know in the comments below any tips that have helped you during those times.

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Happy Friday, friends!! Hope you’ve had a good week and are ready for the weekend.

One Friday a month I send out a list of five fun things I’ve found to my e-mail subscribers. It could be a blog post, a product, a recipe, a book, or just about anything that I think they might like, too.

For August, I decided to bring my list to the blog so that everyone can check it out! (If you’d like to subscribe to my newsletter, you can click here. You’ll get an email every time a new post goes live as well as a weekly update with subscriber-only content and some “behind-the-scenes” news.)

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Here are my five fun finds for this month.

Chasing Shadows by Lynn Austin. I don’t read a lot of historical fiction these days. However, I really liked Austin’s last book, so I gave this one a try. It was very good! It’s set in the Netherlands in World War II.

10 Things to Say to a Strong-Willed Teen. Some of these are golden! I think you’ll find them useful whether or not you classify your teen as strong-willed.

Personal Organizer Toiletry Bag (Medium) from L.L. Bean. This is not a new find, but because we’ve been traveling more this summer, it’s gotten a real workout! I love all the pockets and dividers. The attached hook is great, too. It makes it easy to hang the bag from a hook on the back of the bathroom door or on the end of a towel rack. That saves space on those small bathroom countertops! It’s also very durable – I’ve had mine for years.

Croc Women’s Capri V Sequin Flip Flops. Here’s another product I’ve had for a while that’s gotten used a lot this summer. I have the silver sandals, and they go with everything. They’re a little dressier than your basic flip flop. I actually have three pair of Croc flip flops in different styles and I recommend them all. They’re so comfortable!

5 in 1 Professional Curling Iron and Wand Set. So my curling iron quit working on the first day of our cruise. And no, I can tell you from experience that they do not sell curling irons on cruise ships! I ordered a new one once we got home, but until it arrived, I borrowed this set from my daughter. I like that you can switch out the barrel size depending on what type of curl you wanted.

Let me know what you’re loving in August! Hope you have a good weekend!!

We’re ten days into February and I’m ready to declare it the “winteriest” of the winter months, at least for 2021! I’m actually writing this post on Monday, which has been mostly sunny and warmer, but I see more gray skies and rain ahead in our weather forecast.

These cold, wet days naturally lead to lots of time inside at home. What comes to your mind when you think of that word – home? Is it a particular house you lived in growing up? Does it bring to the surface emotions that make you feel safe and secure – or the opposite? Are there certain people you always associate with that word?

No matter what your living situation, most of us live in a home of some sort. It could be a camper, an apartment, or a single family house. Your home could contain just one person, include a roommate, or be multi-generational.

Regardless of our home’s physical characteristics or the makeup of people, we all want our home to be a place we want to be. Somewhere that’s comfortable, welcoming, and peaceful.

Part of what creates that feeling is being surrounded by things we enjoy. For my family, that means lots of books, some pictures on the walls, and photos of family and places we’ve visited. But if filling the rooms with stuff made for a happy home, we could all create one fairly easily.

But a happy home is so much more than that. I’m sure we could come up with a long list of ingredients for a happy home, but here are some I think are important.

1. Love for God

This is the basis for a truly happy home. Can unsaved people have a happy home at times? I think so. But if our home is going to have an overall sense of peace and joy, even when times are tough, our faith will be our home’s foundation.

2. Love for each other

This doesn’t mean kids won’t fight or that husbands and wives won’t have disagreements. But deep down, we all know we’re for each other. We may not like each other all the time, but love is always present. Simply put, we can’t be selfish and expect our home to be happy.

3. Respect

Family members need to respect each other’s time, possessions, and differences. This means we have some ground rules like you can’t borrow your sister’s things without asking. And when we disagree, we don’t yell at each other. We respect the other person enough to talk it through – even if we need some time to cool down first.

4. Shared interests

For us this is Hallmark mystery movies and card games and skillet chocolate chip cookies with vanilla ice cream 🙂 It can also be a favorite sports team you follow or a book author you all like to read or a hobby you do together.

5. Open communication and clear expectations

Make honesty non-negotiable. Talk a little and listen a lot. And those expectations in your head that you never communicate to your family – you shouldn’t be upset when they’re not met.

As a wife and mom, I’m learning that a happy home starts with me and my attitude. No matter how fluffy the pillows or how plush the carpet, if I’m grumpy or “out of sorts,” our home will not be pleasant for anyone.

Seeing my family members as people I can serve for Jesus makes a huge difference. The tasks that I do – from folding laundry to scrubbing the shower to cooking supper – are not just acts of service for my family, but beyond that, they’re done for the Lord. 

As Colossians 3:17 reminds me, “And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by Him.” This doesn’t just apply to my Bible study time or the ministry I serve in at church. “Whatsoever ye do” covers packing my husband’s lunch, vacuuming crumbs off the floor, or washing the dishes.

Let’s be real – no home is totally happy 100% of the time. But there can be an ongoing undercurrent of contentment and satisfaction. With God’s help, my attitude can be one of service and selflessness, and our home can be a place of peace and happiness for my family.

Home interprets heaven. Home is heaven for beginners. ~Charles Henry Parkhurst

What other ingredients do you think it takes to make a happy home?

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If there’s anything 2020 has handed us, it’s been opportunities to adjust to changes!

These adjustments have looked different for everyone over the past nine months. Our latest one involves our younger daughter. She’d been attending in-person classes at her high school for most of the first nine weeks of the school year. However, due to several students and teachers testing positive for COVID recently, she’s now in the midst of two weeks of Zoom classes before hopefully returning to school on Monday. We’d settled into the school year routine fairly well, and then…change.

Change takes many forms.  It can be the literal seasons, a season of life (I’m looking at you, empty nest years!), a new job, a move, adding a family member, or a lot of other scenarios.

Over the years, the seven tips listed below have been helpful as I navigated uncertain periods of life.

1.  Have a basic routine. 

A routine can be as simple as waking up and getting dressed at the same time each morning. Planning the first hour of the day by scheduling Bible time or exercise or a particular household chore can be helpful.  I remember one mom saying that the first activity of her day was emptying the dishwasher of clean dishes so it was ready to be filled with dirty ones as the day progressed.

I find that anchoring my morning with just two or three essential activities gives me a sense of control for the day. You can find guidance on building simple morning routines at Kat Lee’s site Hello Mornings. Once life gets back to a more predictable pattern, you can add other details back into your schedule. But in the meantime, set yourself up for success by establishing a basic routine.

2.  Put relationships first. 

Since I’m task-oriented, following a routine is fairly easy for me. And while that’s important because it gives a rhythm to my days, I can skip connecting with the people around me.  If we’re talking about family members, they’re likely experiencing change in some form right along with us. Are we taking the time to acknowledge their needs?

We may have to be purposeful about sitting down to a meal together or going out for coffee. Often, in a season of change, we can be distracted or feel like there’s not enough time to get everything done. That’s why we have to focus on our relationships and make maintaining them a priority.

3.  Keep to-do-lists short. 

Figure out what actually has to get done each day.  We can easily get overwhelmed in an unsettled situation. Having a manageable list of tasks to accomplish can keep us from getting discouraged. It can also give us focus when we don’t know what to do next.

The Lazy Genius has an interesting podcast episode called What Is Your List-Making Personality? (You can also read it as a PDF here.) Most of us feel a sense of accomplishment when we can check a piece of paper (or our phones) at the end of the day and see what we actually completed.

4.  Be flexible. 

Remember up there when I said routines are my friend? Flexibility is not. 🙂 Change is all about situations that are in flux, so be willing to adjust plans as needed. Again, 2020 has allowed us to practice this over and over again.

Be patient with yourselves and others when plans or situations change. Know that there’s a time and a season for everything…but we can’t always do all the things right now.

5.  Simplify. 

Make simple meals, wear clothes that don’t require ironing, do only essential cleaning.  Keep your schedule as free as possible so you can deal with unexpected situations that arise.

I often enjoy Emily P. Freeman’s podcast The Next Right Thing. She helps listeners tackle just the very next decision that needs to be made rather than looking ahead to what’s farther down the road.

6.  Pray. 

In seasons of change, this should actually top the list!  Ask for God’s wisdom and help with your current circumstances. When I’m overwhelmed, I find comfort in basing my prayers on the Psalms.

We’re all familiar with Philippians 4:6-7. When life’s uncertain, let’s really grab hold of God’s promise of peace as we bypass worry and take our requests to Him.

7.  Give yourself grace.

Many days don’t go as planned.  That’s okay! 

Stop. Let go of the frustration. Take a minute to count your blessings. Realize that eventually, life will return to some sort of normal. Until then, don’t expect everything to function just like before.

Seasons of change help us grow.  We often get a new perspective and are able to re-evaluate what’s most important in our lives. Change can be scary, but hopefully these tips can help us handle it a bit more calmly!

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