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How to Find Comfort in Praying the Names of God

July 20, 2022 by Tracey 4 Comments

Hello all! Hope it’s a good week so far where you are. Mid-morning yesterday I went walking outside with a friend in her neighborhood. There was no doubt that it’s the middle of the summer!! I came home and cooled off by eating a bunch of cut-up watermelon from the fridge 🙂

Recently I was doing a quick study on a few of the names of God. (I will say up front that I’m no expert in Hebrew, but I’m trusting that the resources I use are fairly accurate.) As I looked at the meanings of these names and read them in context in Scripture, I realized how comforting it is to dwell on all that our God is and does.

Below is a list of five names of God, an example of how they’re used in a Bible verse, and a prayer we can pray that relates to that name.

Here are five specific names of God to bring us comfort along with related prayers we can use as we talk to God.

1. El Shaddai ~ All-Sufficient One, Lord God Almighty

“And when Abram was ninety years old and nine, the Lord appeared to Abram, and said unto him, I am the Almighty God; walk before me, and be thou perfect.” ~Genesis 17:1

This is the first time in the Bible that this particular name of God is used. The Lord and Abram are well acquainted by now. But in this passage we find God reaffirming His covenant with Abram and changing his name to Abraham.

Abraham is remembered for his faith. “And he [Abram] believed in the Lord; and he counted it to him for righteousness.” [Genesis 15:6] Abraham believed in a God who was all-powerful and all-sufficient, one whom Abraham was willing to follow to a new land and totally trust with his future.

Thank you, God, that you are all-sufficient. There is no other God but you, and you are more than enough to meet my every need. You are almighty, the Lord God alone who holds all power and authority. May I see your sufficiency and power at work in my life every day.

2. Adonai ~ Lord, Master

“O praise the Lord, all ye nations: praise him, all ye people.” ~Psalm 117:1

Not much needs to be said here! He is our sovereign Lord and ruler of all.

God, you are worthy of my praise. All knowledge and power belong to you. You created me and then you bought me with a price, the death of your only beloved Son. You are my master; you own me. May I serve you with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength.

3. Jehovah Rapha ~ The Lord who heals

“…If thou wilt diligently hearken to the voice of the Lord thy God, and wilt do that which is right in his sight, and wilt give ear to his commandments, and keep all his statutes, I will put none of these diseases upon thee, which I have brought upon the Egyptians: for I am the Lord that healeth thee.” ~Exodus 15:26

What comfort there is in believing in a God who has healing power! Yes, this means physical healing. But also emotional healing. Maybe we’ve endured a bad relationship or find ourselves in a season of discouragement. He also offers spiritual healing, foremost salvation through Jesus Christ, and also victory over sin in our lives as we walk with Him.

Oh Lord who heals, hear me today. You know intimately every illness that I have, every weakness. Heal me in every way, I pray. Give me physical strength, emotional health, mental wellbeing and spiritual victory. May all the glory go to you always.

4. El Olam ~ The Everlasting God

“Trust ye in the Lord for ever: for in the Lord Jehovah is everlasting strength:” ~Isaiah 26:4

This one reminds me of God’s faithfulness. If we loved and served a God who would eventually fade away, what help would that be? No, our God is eternal. His ability to keep His promises never expires.

It also assures me of my home in Heaven. A God who lives forever has a place prepared for us to dwell with Him.

God, you are the eternal one, with no beginning and no end. We will never cease to worship and praise you. Time means nothing to you; you are the King of all the ages. Your character never changes. Thank you that you keep your promises in this life here on earth and that I will spend eternity with you in Heaven.

5. El Roi ~ The God who sees me

“And she called the name of the Lord that spake unto her, Thou God seest me: for she said, Have I also here looked after him that seeth me?” ~Genesis 16:13

All of these names of God are comforting, but especially this one! When we feel lonely, God sees us. When we feel abandoned or sad or discouraged, God sees us. There is nowhere we can go, no night so dark, that He is not there watching over us.

Dear God, I find such comfort in your name El Roi. When I, like Hagar, feel forsaken and alone, may I remember that you see me. Let your compassion and concern comfort me. Find me in my brokenness and give me hope and courage.

I trust that we will all find comfort as we grow in our knowledge and understanding of our great and powerful God!

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10 Things You Can Do Today to Be Encouraged

July 12, 2022 by Tracey 4 Comments

How are you feeling today? In this instance, I’m not talking about your physical health, but more about your emotions.

One day recently I was feeling a little blue, as they say. There was no reason for it, that I knew of. I just wasn’t my usual happy self 🙂

Maybe you can relate if you occasionally have days when you’re a little down and aren’t really sure why. It could be that you’ve had lots of changes happening in your life and it’s a bit overwhelming. Or maybe nothing changes ever and that’s left you rather glum. Perhaps it’s a health struggle or a relationship breakdown or just a case of realizing you’re not getting any younger!

Whatever brings about those days, I would guess that many of us have them. But we don’t want to stay in that unhappy place. And we can’t just count on our circumstances changing to make us feel better. Sometimes we have to step up and encourage our own selves.

It may not be what we actually feel like doing, but it can be what we need to do to turn our mindset around. So if you’re looking for ways to find encouragement, something on this list of ten actions could be helpful. We likely know most of these but it’s always good to be reminded of ways we can encourage ourselves.

Check out this list of ten things you can do to encourage yourself when you're feeling a little down.

1. Go to God’s Word.

Read it. Dive into the Psalms – many of them are short and so relatable when we’re struggling. Choose one verse and write it out.

As you have time, dig deeper into a verse or passage. You could even turn it into your own prayer to the Lord.

2. Pray.

We can pour out every thought, every hurt, and every emotion to God. He hears and is merciful and compassionate.

3. Give thanks.

Just look around and notice all that you have to be grateful for. Write out a few of your blessings every day.

4. Praise God.

Turn on music that is uplifting. Sing some songs out loud while you work around the house or drive in your car.

5. Meditate on God’s promises.

If you know there’s a particular worry or fear that’s getting you down, find a promise of God that addresses that issue.

Is it a financial strain? “But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” ~Philippians 4:19

Need guidance? “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” ~Proverbs 3:5-6

You can also focus your mind on God’s character. For example, read through these six truths about God from Psalm 145 and choose one to meditate on today.

6. Do something for someone else.

Do something small – a text that says, “I’m thinking of you” – or mail a handwritten note. Or do something that takes a little more of a time commitment – make someone a meal or stop by and visit someone who’s currently homebound.

7. Surround yourself with encouraging people.

Reach out to a friend and ask her to pray for you. Head to a church service where you can connect with fellow believers.

8. Read good books that will encourage your heart.

Find biographies of Godly women or search for Christian books that will help you learn more and grow in your faith.

9. Set a small goal to accomplish each day.

Many times we feel better when we have a sense of accomplishment. Determine a small thing you’d like to do – it could be taking a walk outside or exercising or straightening up one area in your house. Tackle it early in the day so that you can cross it off your list and get that little win.

10. Find something to be excited about in the future.

Put an event on your calendar in the next few weeks that you can look forward to. Lunch with a friend, a pedicure, a visit to a craft store for new supplies for your hobby, a walk in a new-to-you park or part of town. Then take care of any planning ahead of time so that you’re ready for your adventure when the time comes.

When you have one of those “feeling blue” days, I hope you’ll choose one or more of these things to do and end the day encouraged!

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10 Helpful Bible Study Resources for Women

July 12, 2022 by Tracey 2 Comments

Hello, friends! Taking a quick mid-summer break from our usual content to share some resources that I think you might find helpful.

This list includes Bible studies, books, devotionals, and a journal. I (or, in one case, my daughter) have personally used all 10 of these items and would recommend them. Click through the links provided to check them out!

Check out these Bible studies, devotionals and books that you can use to help you learn and grow as a Christian woman.

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1. The Armor of God by Priscilla Shirer. One of my favorite Bible studies ever!

2. Stepping Heavenward by Elizabeth Prentiss. It may seem strange to have a fiction book on this list, but I learn so much from it each time I read it. (I try to re-read this book on a regular basis.) The main character’s struggles so perfectly mirror my own in my walk with God. As I see how she gains victory in her life, I’m encouraged to do the same in mine.

3. Women of the Word by Jen Wilkin. The subtitle of this book is, “How to study the Bible with both our hearts and minds.” This book is a very practical help if you want to learn more about digging into God’s Word.

4. Becoming Elisabeth Elliot by Ellen Vaughn. I actually just finished this book recently. It’s a biography of the first half of Elisabeth Elliot’s life. The author gives a realistic view of Elliot’s struggles using many excerpts from her journals.

5. A Woman of Prayer by Betty Henderson. This was a very helpful Bible study on prayer, a subject I always want to learn more about.

6. 3-Minute Devotions for Teen Girls by April Frazier. I actually bought this for one of my daughters in her mid-teen years and she enjoyed it.

7. The Next Right Thing Guided Journal by Emily P. Freeman. I’m on my second of these journals – I filled one up in 2021 and started the next one in January of this year. However, you can begin the journal at any point in the year. It’s grouped by seasons and you just fill in the dates as you go.

8. Keep a Quiet Heart by Elisabeth Elliot. I like this book for its encouragement, but I also like how it’s set up. The “chapters” are short so that it’s easy to read one a day along with my Bible reading.

9. Then Sings My Soul: 150 of the World’s Greatest Hymn Stories by Robert J. Morgan. At one point I used this as part of my devotional time in the mornings. I’d read one story a day after I finished my Bible reading.

10. Sweet Journey by Teri Maxwell. The link here is for the kindle version or you can go here to order the paperback version, which is what I have. A friend at church gifted me a copy years ago and it was a blessing.

Thanks for stopping by the blog today. Let me know in the comments if there’s a resource that’s been a help to you as you study the Bible. Have a great Tuesday!

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7 Helpful Prayers to Pray When You’re Struggling with Your Thought Life

June 22, 2022 by Tracey 6 Comments

Welcome to the blog today! While the weather this time of year isn’t my favorite (here’s looking at you, heat and humidity), I do totally enjoy all the daylight hours! I love the light early in the mornings and late into the evenings.

Today’s topic is one that we’ve probably all struggled with at some point. Having a strong, healthy thought life means overcoming a wide range of temptations.

Sure, it could be impure or lustful thoughts. It could also be jealousy or envy, often brought on by comparing ourselves or what we have with others. Fear and worry can dominate our minds. Or maybe we just have a negative outlook because we’re ungrateful.

We read in the first part of Proverbs 23:7 that as a man thinks in his heart, so is he. That tells me that the person I’m becoming is directly tied to how I’m thinking.

Here are seven Bible-based prayers we can pray as we seek to gain victory over sin in our thought life.

We become what we think about. So what are we feeding our minds?

Do we read books or watch movies or listen to songs that lead us to impure thoughts? Are we giving fear top billing in our minds as we check the news throughout the day? Do we worry more or pray more?

I can admit that I’ve been in all of these places at different times in my life. Yet no matter what our struggle is in this area, we can have victory through God’s power.

Here are seven Bible verses we can pray to help us win the battle for our minds.

1. “Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.” ~Psalm 19:14

This is the perfect verse to start with because it’s already a prayer! The meditation of our heart – what a perfect description of our thoughts. God knows every thought that passes through our minds and we want all of them to be pleasing to Him.

2. (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; ~2 Corinthians 10:4-5

What beautiful imagery – capturing every thought. It’s easy to let our minds fill with any ol’ thoughts, to just let them run free. But this verse doesn’t have gentle language. It’s active – pull down, cast down, bring into captivity. We have to take action to control our thoughts.

This verse is also a wonderful reminder that we can only do this because of our mighty God. It’s a spiritual battle and we need His help to win it.

God, through your power, let me throw out of my mind wrong imaginations and any thoughts that cause me to go against You and Your Word. Help me to capture every stray thought and align it with your truth.

3. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. ~Philippians 4:8

Here’s a checklist for our thought life. If what you’re thinking about lines up with these guidelines, you’re good to go.

Dear Lord, let my mind only dwell on things that are true, honest, just, pure, lovely, good, and virtuous. May all my thoughts be praiseworthy.

4. Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. ~Matthew 22:37

If I’m loving God with all my mind, there will be no room for other sinful thoughts.

Heavenly Father, help me to love you with all of my mind. Let thoughts of You and Your truth crowd out all else. I’m thankful that you are worthy of all my worship and praise.

5. Wherefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and hope to the end for the grace that is to be brought unto you at the revelation of Jesus Christ; ~1 Peter 1:13

It’s easy to get sloppy about our thought life. Monitoring what goes into our minds may seem unimportant at times. But, as we mentioned above, what we’re feeding our minds is going to affect every part of us. It’s important to be vigilant about what we’re allowing to influence us.

Dear Lord, may I take control of my thoughts and be serious about guarding what enters my mind. Thank You for your grace and that I can seek forgiveness from You when my thoughts get off track.

6. Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. ~Psalm 139:23-24

Just like the number one above, this verse is already a prayer. No need to elaborate – we can just pray what’s written! It’s humbling to ask God to search us, not just our words and actions, but our thoughts and motives.

7. But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfill the lusts thereof. ~Romans 13:14

This verse applies to every area of our lives, from where we go to what we take in to the people we hang out with.

God keep me from thoughts that would cause me to sin. Lead me not into temptation, but deliver me from evil. Give me perception and discernment to see where certain thought patterns will lead and let me not follow blindly. Convict me of sin in my thought life.

I hope all of us can benefit from one or more of these prayers as we strive to win the battle for our thought life.

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3 Tips for a Better Attitude Today

June 9, 2022 by Tracey 4 Comments

Let’s start out with a question for you today. How’s your attitude?

Maybe things are going great and you’re feeling happy and motivated. You could be on the other end of the spectrum – grumpy and discouraged – or somewhere in between.

If you need an attitude adjustment like I did, check out these three Bible-based tips for having a better attitude today.

I will confess that earlier this week, my attitude was not the greatest. It all centered on a minor inconvenience that hardly affected me, but I still felt annoyed by it.

Props to my husband…he handled it with no complaining or grumbling…so then I felt even worse about my disgruntled frame of mind!

Before I sat down to read my Bible on Monday morning, I talked to God about how I was feeling. I sensed an undercurrent of dissatisfaction that I knew needed to be corrected.

Isn’t God good to give us just what we need by encouraging us through His Word? [Side note: this is not the point of this post, but I was reminded of the importance of reading my Bible on a regular basis because that’s where God most often speaks to me.]

Do you know what I needed that day? A changed perspective. And I found it in Romans 12:12.

“Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;“

I realized that there were three things I could do right then that would improve my attitude for the rest of the day.

1. Choose joy.

I could focus on the situation that wasn’t what I wanted it to be. Or I could look at all my blessings and thank God for them.

Of all people, we as Christians have hope. We have hope for today because God has promised to never leave us or forsake us. We have hope for tomorrow because He is faithful and always keeps His promises. We have hope for eternity because our final home is in Heaven.

You and I don’t get to choose all that happens to us today, but we do get to choose how to respond in every situation. Let’s be intentional in choosing joy.

Want a practical way to increase your joy right away? Listen to some music that encourages your soul – and sing along!

2. Practice patience.

Remember all those Bible admonitions to wait on the Lord? We all have seasons of waiting, of trusting that God will meet the need, will show us the next step.

The verse above tells us to be patient in tribulation. Isn’t that when it’s the most difficult? We want out of our trouble or suffering as quickly as possible!

Yet our God is sovereign. He will bring an end to our trial in HIS timing, not ours.

I like this quote from Peter Marshall. “Teach us, O Lord, the disciplines of patience, for to wait is often harder than to work.“

3. Pray about everything.

God knows all about my situation. But I believe that He still wants me to talk to Him about it. It’s okay to tell Him if I’m frustrated or unhappy.

Then I can turn to Him in faith. I can bring my need to Him, and ask Him to meet it, ultimately praying for His will to be done.

Our verse above admonishes us to be steadfast in prayer. Stand firm. Don’t give up. Believe that God hears and will answer.

As my dad often said, attitude is everything. I know I’ll need to revisit these three tips often, especially if I want to keep a right perspective when things aren’t going smoothly!

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5 Truths to Help You Get Victory Over Sin

June 1, 2022 by Tracey 6 Comments

Happy June!! With Memorial Day behind us, it certainly feels like summer is here!

I took an unplanned break from posting on the blog last week. I can’t say that anything big was happening, but it’s definitely a different pace around here with the girls home from college for the summer. There’s certainly more coming and going, and I try to tag along whenever I’m invited 🙂

We did attend three graduation parties over the weekend. It’s hard to believe that it’s been a year since our youngest daughter graduated from high school! Time is passing so quickly in this season of life.

The last few mornings, I’ve been reading in Romans 6. A number of verses have spoken to me in this passage, specifically as it relates to our ongoing battle with sin. We will have this fleshly “old man” with us until we reach our home in Heaven! But how can we get victory over sin on a regular basis? I think I found some answers there in Romans 6.

Check out these five truths from Romans 6 as you seek to get victory over sin in your life.

1. If I’ve trusted Jesus as my Savior, I no longer have to serve sin.

“Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him [Jesus], that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin. For he that is dead is freed from sin.” ~Verses 6,7

What a wonderful thing to be free from sin! It all starts here. We must realize that it’s only through Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross and His resurrection from death that we have power to not sin.

Our human flesh, the “old man,” is bound to sin and naturally follows sinful desires. But once we’ve accepted Jesus as our Savior, we don’t have to be in bondage to sin anymore.

2. Is there a sin (or sins) ruling my life?

“Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof.” ~Verse 12

Once I have Jesus in my life, I don’t have to let sin be in charge. I can choose to allow God to direct my life instead.

The latter part of the verse talks about lust. We often think of that word in a sexual context, but it can just mean a strong craving or desire.

Maybe we have a strong desire to please people without considering if we’re pleasing God. It could be a lust for material possessions or to be the center of attention or a desire to always be in control of our circumstances instead of trusting God. These lusts or sinful desires can rule the decisions we make, the words we say, and how we treat others.

Pray and ask God to reveal any sins that might be reigning in your life so that you can get them off the throne!

3. Am I daily yielding myself to God?

“Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?” ~Verse 16

Another word we could use here is submit. We’ve taken sin off the throne. Now we need to submit ourselves to God’s working in our lives. Let’s not obey the sin that wants us to serve it, but rather obey God who wants to see us live righteously.

4. Choosing obedience to God over sin involves a change of heart.

“But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you.” ~ Verse 17

Yes, we once served sin, but now we’ve been given the light of the gospel. Jesus has made us free. Now we shun sin and serve God because we want to please Him and show Him how grateful we are for all He’s done for us.

5. As we begin to have victory over sin, we produce fruit unto holiness.

“But now being made free from sin, and become servants to God, ye have your fruit unto holiness, and the end everlasting life.” ~Verse 22

Because we’re free from sin, we can grow in our walk with God and produce fruit. Our fruit is a holy life, our sanctification. It’s not our salvation; verse 23 covers that. Salvation is a gift from God. But once we’re saved, through Bible study, meditation, and prayer, our lives become a reflection of Him.

How blessed we are that we can defeat sin in our lives through redemption in Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit!

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The Bible Verse That Helped Me See My Sin

May 18, 2022 by Tracey 4 Comments

If you’re looking for a bit of vulnerability today, you’ve come to the right place 🙂

As I’ve said before, I often write about an area in which I’m currently being challenged. Today’s topic is one that’s a recurring struggle in my life.

One blessing of memorizing Scripture is that the Holy Spirit can bring specific verses to mind when they’re needed. Sometimes a verse from a particular Psalm will cheer me up when I need encouragement. Or when I sense that I need wisdom, James 1:5 will remind me to ask God for it.

And then there are the times a verse comes along and convicts me of sin in my life. Such was the case on a couple of occasions recently.

It's a sin I struggle with often, but the Holy Spirit used this verse to convict my heart and change my spirit.

I’ll share the verse with you and you’ll immediately know what my issue was.

“Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well-advised is wisdom.” ~Proverbs13:10

Before we dive into my story, let’s remind ourselves what pride is.

The definition from dictionary.com is “a high or inordinate opinion of one’s own dignity, importance, merit, or superiority, whether as cherished in the mind or as displayed in bearing, conduct, etc.“

That phrase “cherished in the mind” is interesting. Pride begins with how we think of ourselves. Eventually, if we indulge those thoughts rather than fight them, pride comes out in how we act, what we say, and the way we treat other people.

Here are two recent situations when I was convicted by this verse.

In the first instance, my feelings were hurt. I felt like someone treated me poorly, especially when I considered all that I’d done for them. And since I’m keeping it real, my first inclination was to get angry at them and let them know it.

That’s precisely when Proverbs 13:10 came to mind. There was about to be contention (aka some conflict), and according to that verse, it would be my pride that caused it. I was going to play myself as the victim and try to get the other person to see how I’d been hurt.

Thankfully I heeded that warning and realized that there was a better way to handle the situation. In this case, it was to just let it go. I’m not saying that’s always the right thing to do, but it was in this moment.

The only reason for the conflict would be that I wanted my hurt feelings to be recognized. I believe it was unintentional on their part, and nothing about addressing it in this particular instance was going to build or better the relationship going forward.

And since I didn’t learn the lesson well enough that time, I got another opportunity to be tested! This time I had a different take on a situation than someone else did. I held a great conversation in my head about how right I was!

But once again, Proverbs 13:10 slipped into my thoughts. Did it really matter who was right? And even if I was correct in my assessment, was it worth potentially damaging the relationship? Thankfully I realized that it wasn’t before I started the conversation.

So what’s the moral of the story here? I’ll make it brief.

~Anytime you’re about to enter into a conflict or argument, ask yourself if your pride is involved. Are you practicing meekness and humility or just wanting your own way?

~Hide God’s Word in your heart. The older I get, the more difficult it is, but memorizing Bible verses is important. It’s especially helpful to focus on those Scriptures that can help you in areas where you struggle.

~Praise God for His Word and His Holy Spirit that convicts us of sin.

~Thank the Lord that when our flesh overrides His convicting of our souls, He forgives our sin as we come to Him and repent.

Is there a verse that God’s been using in your life lately in some way? I’d love to hear about it!

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How to Pray for Someone You Love

April 27, 2022 by Tracey 5 Comments

It’s another middle-of-the-week post and the last one for April!

It looks like May is shaping up to be a full month around here. We’ll be happy to have our daughters home from college in a couple of weeks. There’s also a friend’s wedding and a few graduations, so lots of celebrating ahead!

A few days ago I became burdened about praying for someone I love. Have you ever had that feeling? Maybe it’s a spouse, a child, a relative, or a friend. It could be that you know they need Jesus as their Savior. Perhaps they’re experiencing a health crisis or a financial problem. Or you might recognize that a person you love is facing a spiritual battle and you want to cover them in prayer.

As I was thinking about this the other night, I was reminded of a story about Abraham. Near the end of Genesis 18, after spending time with Abraham and Sarah, the Lord tells Abraham his plan to destroy the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah because of their wickedness. You’ll remember that Abraham’s nephew, Lot, and his family live in that area.

Then there’s a back-and-forth conversation where Abraham asks God to spare the city if there’s a certain number of righteous people in it. Abraham continues to lower the number of righteous required, and God continues to agree to spare the city if He finds that many righteous people.

There’s a lot we can learn from this exchange. As Abraham pleads with God on Lot’s behalf, let’s look at five things we can apply as we pray for someone we love.

Here you'll find five ways we can pray for someone we love from the Bible story of Abraham talking with God.

1. His prayer was specific.

Peradventure there be fifty righteous within the city: wilt thou also destroy and not spare the place for the fifty righteous that are therein? ~Genesis 18:24

Abraham didn’t just offer a general prayer for the city to be spared. He listed specific numbers in his request to God.

Let’s be specific as we pray. What exactly is it that we want God to do in this person’s life? It helps to base our prayer on God’s Word so we’ll know for certain that we’re praying in His will.

For example, if we’re praying for someone who’s fighting temptation, pray that they will put on the whole armor of God from Ephesians 6:10-18. You could even pray through each particular piece as you pray for your loved one.

2. He appealed to God’s character.

And Abraham drew near, and said, Wilt thou also destroy the righteous with the wicked? Peradventure there be fifty righteous within the city: wilt thou also destroy and not spare the place for the fifty righteous that are therein? That be far from thee to do after this manner, to slay the righteous with the wicked: and that the righteous should be as the wicked, that be far from thee: Shall not the Judge of all the earth do right? ~Genesis 18:23-25

Abraham knew God so he was able to speak to His character. He knew that God was just and always did what was right.

We can do the same as we pray. Appeal to His mercy. Ask for His grace. Our God is compassionate, loving, and longsuffering. We can rest in those traits as we bring our requests to Him.

3. He was humble.

And Abraham answered and said, Behold now, I have taken upon me to speak unto the Lord, which am but dust and ashes: ~Genesis 18:27

His attitude wasn’t, “God, you owe me.” No, he recognized who he was and who God was.

We can approach God boldly yet still have an attitude of reverence and humility. It’s only because of His grace that we’re able to come into His presence and have Him hear our prayers.

4. He was persistent.

And he said, Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak yet but this once: Peradventure ten shall be found there. And he said, I will not destroy it for ten’s sake. ~Genesis 18:32

This was the sixth time Abraham asked God to answer his specific request. And not once did God tell him to stop asking.

Don’t give up. Remember the New Testament admonition to pray without ceasing. (1 Thessalonians 5:17)

5. He left it in the Lord’s hands.

And the Lord went his way, as soon as he had left communing with Abraham: and Abraham returned unto his place. ~Genesis 18:33

Abraham didn’t try to follow the Lord to see what was going to happen. Once he’d finished talking to God, he returned home and went about his usual business.

Too often I’ll pray about something, but rather than leaving it in the Lord’s hands, I’ll continue to worry or fret over it. When that happens, I try to remind myself of Philippians 4:6, 7.

Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

I find encouragement as I read how Jesus prayed for Peter in Luke 22:31-32.

And the Lord said, Simon, Simon, behold, Satan hath desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat: But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren.

Let’s take our requests for our loved ones to God in prayer and trust Him to work in their lives for His glory.

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5 Easter Truths to Give Us Hope in 2022

April 13, 2022 by Tracey 4 Comments

Welcome to Girls to Grow on this week before Easter!

Our two daughters are flying in from college tonight to spend their Easter break here at home. That means I have a grocery pickup scheduled for this morning. I plan to feed them well while they’re here!

There are many things to focus on this time of year. It can take some effort to turn our thoughts toward the spiritual significance of this season which is the death and resurrection of Christ. Our salvation, our sanctification, our home in Heaven, all depend on this central part of God’s redemption plan for man.

As we sing the Easter songs, read the Easter verses, and hear the Easter sermons, I trust that our hearts will be overwhelmed anew with love for our Savior and celebration of His victory over sin and death.

Today I want to share five Easter-related truths to bring hope and joy to our hearts in this significant season.

As we celebrate Jesus' death and resurrection at Easter, we can find joy and hope in these five truths.

1. God always has a plan but we won’t always understand.

In Mark 9:31-32 we read that Jesus told his disciples that he would die and rise again. It also says that they didn’t understand what he was teaching them. And we can’t fully know when each of them grasped that Jesus’ death, burial, and resurrection was God’s plan all along.

God was in full control of every single detail, from the arrest to the trial to the crucifixion to the resurrection. God also has a plan for each one of us, a work that He’s doing in us and through us. Sometimes we can see how and why God is moving. But for those times when we don’t, we need to trust Him anyway.

2. You never know whose heart is ready to receive the gospel.

Out of the many people around the cross that day – some followers of Jesus, most who likely were not – there were two whose eternities were changed forever. One of the thieves crucified alongside Jesus believed on him and entered Paradise that day. A Roman centurion, observing all that was happening, declared, “Truly this man was the Son of God.” (Mark 15:39)

May we be attentive to the needs of people we come in contact with as we go through our day. We don’t know who God might put in our path that needs to hear about Jesus.

3. God keeps His promises.

Four times in John 19:23-37 we find events happening “that the scripture might be fulfilled.” Numerous prophecies made hundreds of years before came true on that day.

Is there a Bible promise you’re claiming in your own life today? Our God keeps His promises.

4. Things often look the darkest just before they get better.

Think about those women who came to anoint the body of Jesus so very early on that Sunday morning. Maybe their tears had dried by this point, but surely their hearts were still heavy with loss. The one whom they had loved and followed was dead.

But what a surprise awaited them when they arrived at the tomb. They found the angel of the Lord presiding over an empty tomb! Their sorrow was turned to amazement and then to joy. When we feel like we’ve reached rock bottom, let’s look up in hope for deliverance.

5. The same God that caused Jesus to rise from the dead has the power to help us in any of our struggles.

“But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his…But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.” ~Romans 8:9,11

We can have victory over sin through the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead. He is our Comforter and He makes intercession for us with God the Father.

You and I don’t serve an impotent God. He holds all power – including the power of life and death – and He can meet our every need and give us grace for every trial.

May we find renewed hope as we celebrate the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ this Easter!!

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What Does It Mean to Walk with the Lord?

April 6, 2022 by Tracey 4 Comments

Hello friends! Now that we’re almost a week into April, is it feeling like spring where you are?

My husband and I went to Lowes on Saturday night and I bought a couple of plants for our front porch. I put them next to the bench that’s there and now I’m wanting to add a couple of spring pillows. That’s about the extent of what I do on the outside of the house to celebrate the arrival of spring!

Sometimes I like to do word studies during my Bible reading time. For the past week or so, I’ve been focusing on the word “walk.”

I use a free online concordance to find all the Bible verses that have the word “walk” in them and read through a few each day. Often I’ll take one of the verses and delve a little deeper by reading a few online commentaries about it and then writing down my thoughts on how that verse applies to me.

I was actually surprised by how many verses there are that refer to walking with God or walking in His ways. Today I wanted to share some of the verses I’ve found in the Old Testament that are better helping me understand what it means to walk with the Lord.

The Bible has a lot of verses that talk about our walk.  Here are five things involved in walking with the Lord.

“Ye shall walk after the Lord your God, and fear him, and keep his commandments, and obey his voice, and ye shall serve him, and cleave unto him.” ~Deuteronomy 13:4

What does this verse tell us that it means to walk with the Lord?

1. Fear God.

Just as wisdom begins with fearing God (Proverbs 9:10), so does our walk with the Lord. We are to reverence Him, to stand in awe of His might and power, and give Him the glory and honor that He deserves.

2. Keep His commandments.

We need to get to know God if we want to walk with Him. As we learn about God through His Word, we’ll also find out how He wants us to live. The Bible gives us His commandments. Our job then is to keep them.

3. Obey His voice.

Obedience is an easy word to throw out there but not always easy to do! At times what we naturally want to do goes against what we believe God is asking us to do.

If you’re a mom, you’ve certainly seen this play out in your children, especially when they’re younger. There are times they obey on the outside, but you can tell they’re rebelling on the inside!

Our obedience should involve our actions and our attitudes.

“And I will raise me up a faithful priest, that shall do according to that which is in mine heart and in my mind: and I will build him a sure house; and he shall walk before mine anointed forever.” ~1 Samuel 2:35

What if it could be said of us that we do all that is in God’s heart and in His mind? Surely that’s the highest level of obedience.

4. Serve Him.

“But take diligent heed to do the commandment…to walk in all his ways, and to keep his commandments, and to cleave unto him, and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul.” ~Joshua 22:5

Walking with the Lord doesn’t include half-hearted service. We should do what we do for God with all of our heart and all our soul.

This verse also says we’re to walk in all His ways. We don’t get to pick and choose which parts of His Word we want to follow.

5. Cleave to Him.

Cleave isn’t a word we use much anymore, but in the Bible, it means to cling or adhere to someone. As we walk with the Lord, we’ll desire to be close to Him. We will find joy and peace in His presence.

And one of the most encouraging verses I found about walking with God is 1 Kings 8:36.

“Then hear thou in heaven, and forgive the sin of thy servants, and of thy people Israel, that thou teach them the good way wherein they should walk…“

We can be taught how we should walk! If our spirit is humble and willing, God, through His Holy Spirit, can teach us how to walk with the Lord.

Here are two summaries I like of what it means to walk with God.

The Jamieson-Faussett-Brown commentary defines it as to “…please and obey God in all things, depending on Him for our well-doing and well-being.“

In his commentary, Benson says that walking with God “…is to have a constant regard to his word as our rule, and to his glory as our end, in all our actions.“

I’m not a Bible commentator, but here’s my very basic summary of what it means to walk with the Lord!

Obey His commandments and have faith in His promises.

May we all desire to walk with the Lord and may He give us the grace to do so.

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