Girls To Grow

Nurturing moms in their walk with God

  • Home
  • About
  • Contact Me
  • Resources for You
  • Digital Printables
  • Shop

We Don’t Have to Do the Work Ourselves

February 16, 2018 by Tracey 4 Comments

Are you watching the winter Olympics?  Our daughters check the television each night to see which events are on, so we usually get caught up in the competition for a little while.

I happened across this funny tweet from @HarlanCoben (whom I know nothing about beyond this tweet) a few nights ago.

Me:  I’ve never watched luge. I know nothing about it.

Me 20 minutes later:  Turns 9 through 12 are really the key to victory. He’s taking them too high. Why doesn’t he listen to me??

Sporting events often bring out the “armchair quarterback” in all of us!  We’ll talk to the television, and “helpfully” instruct these highly trained athletes who’ve worked for years to get to this level.  I mean, it’s like we know how they should go into that jump so that their triple salchow isn’t underrotated!

These Olympians have put incredible amounts of practice time and effort into preparing for the Olympic games.  It’s been their “work” for many years.  And while most of us won’t ever perform on that stage, there is something more important that we are called to do.

It won’t put us on a gold medal platform, or land us any lucrative endorsements.  But God has a work for each one of us.  And it will take a lifetime for that work in and through us to be refined.

God, through His Holy Spirit, is continually doing a work in us.

Let’s look at Hebrews 13:20-21.

“Now the God of peace, that brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus…Make you perfect in every good work to do his will, working in you that which is wellpleasing in his sight, through Jesus Christ; to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.”

The best part about the work God has for us to do is that He will do it in us.  According to the Geneva Study Bible, the word “perfect” in this verse actually means fit or suitable.  In other words, God is the one who makes us suitable for His work.  He equips us with what we need for the job ahead of us.

I like what Barnes said in his commentary about the above verse.  “Paul prayed that God would fully endow them with whatever grace was necessary to do his will and to keep his commandments…”  Whether it’s my marriage, my parenting, my career, or my ministry, I can’t make myself fit for it.  Only through Jesus and His Holy Spirit continually working in us can we live “wellpleasing in His sight.”

The work of the Holy Spirit is gradual and progressive.  Maybe you think, “God’s not doing much with me now.  I do the same thing every day (whether that’s go to work or do laundry or drive carpool).”  Yet even when we don’t feel like His Spirit is working, when we’re not seeing how He’s growing us, we can know He’s faithful to be dong it.  He’s equipping us for what’s to come.

It reminds me of Philippians 1:6.  “Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:”

Because God does the work, I can’t take credit for it.  All glory goes to Him.  When I’m a more patient wife or mom…when I’m bold enough to talk to my neighbor about my faith…when I find that last little bit of endurance I need in a difficult situation… it’s God who deserves the glory and praise.

God is the ultimate orchestrator of all that has to do with us.  He will give us everything we need to live for Him, and will energize us to do the work to which He calls us.

Related posts:
God Will Prepare the Way
God Has a Purpose for You Today
4 Ways You Can Live as Philippians 2 Christian Woman Today

Share this:

  • Share on Pinterest (Opens in new window) Pinterest
  • Share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook
  • Share on X (Opens in new window) X
  • Email a link to a friend (Opens in new window) Email

Filed Under: Worship

Comments

  1. Sues says

    February 16, 2018 at 4:40 pm

    Omigosh!!!! That tweet is 100% me!!! I am SUCH an armchair quarterback!!!!!!! 🤣😜

    I’m really going to meditate on this: “God does the work.” Over & over & over. It’s Him, not me.

    Reply
    • Tracey says

      February 16, 2018 at 5:15 pm

      I follow Erin Hicks Moon on Instagram, and she’s been posting stories of her family watching the Olympics. Her husband is a great (and funny) armchair quarterback!!

      Reply
  2. Nikki says

    February 19, 2018 at 10:22 am

    It’s so comforting to know that God is working in us, that we don’t have to do it all ourselves. That work, though, doesn’t happen in a day or a week or even in a year, and the growth is sooooo slow that we can’t usually see it. It gets discouraging. But He’s still there, still working, and one day we realize that we didn’t yell at our child when he did something childish, like spill milk. Then we realize that, Hey! I’m growing!

    Reply
    • Tracey says

      February 20, 2018 at 8:04 am

      That’s it exactly!! It truly is a blessing when I realize, “Hey, I just responded in a positive way as opposed to my usual negative response.”

      Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Welcome! I'm Tracey, wife and mom to two young adult daughters. I seek to help Christian moms raise children who know, love, and serve God by sharing Biblical wisdom, helpful tips, and practical advice. Read More…

Search the blog

Let’s Connect!

Top Posts

  • Five Thoughts to Encourage the Mom (aka Me) Who's Sending a Child Off to College
  • 13 Things I Want My 13 Year-Old Daughter to Know
  • 10 Important Traits of a Wise Woman
  • The 10 Best Christian Fiction Series for Women
  • 10 Important Things to Know Before Your Daughter Gets Married

As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.

Privacy Policy

Click here for our privacy policy.

Copyright © 2026 · Lifestyle Pro Child Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in