Shoes.
They’re a necessary part of a wardrobe and can range from plain and practical to fancy and frivolous.
For the past nine years, my oldest daughter has entered every fall and winter season with a cute, but sensible, pair of black Mary Janes. They’re not expensive – usually these from Payless – but they hold up well and match every church dress in her closet.
However, I was afraid that after acquiring her first “high heels” this past spring, those reliable, predictable shoes may not be acceptable anymore.
I was right.
As we began scouting the stores this week for suitable church shoes, her eyes were drawn to a pair of flats -sparkly, but safe enough. Unfortunately, her size wasn’t available. Then she spotted some boots, and asked if she could have a pair with a heel like mine this year.
Once again, I find myself seeking a middle ground, settling on a choice that she can see as a bit more grown up and something I can live with as not too mature.
Maybe I should get comfortable on this middle ground; I see myself spending lots of time here in the future.
How do you balance your child’s taste in clothing or shoes with what you prefer?
thanks for visiting my blog! i took my 2 year show shopping last night for a pair of black mary janes (which we found) but couldn't resist the red sparkly shoes when she held them up and said 'pretty momma! please?'.
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One of the ways I encourage my daughter to want what I think would be best for her is to encourage her with how pretty they are. Not all children are like this, but when I get excited about something and put some of myself into it (ie get excited), she takes on my attitude as well. 🙂
Since my kids are only 3 and 1, I just distract them. I know when I am enthusiastic about something they tend to be as well and it can change their minds. It gets harder as they get older I am sure.
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Well, I have three boys, so I suspect that it is not the same thing. Fortunately my eight-year-old does not know what name brand is yet, and he still let me pick out his clothes. He uses uniform at school, which is also a big help.
My four-year-old has his own opinions though, but he is still pretty easy to please…..STILL!
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