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Embrace the Traditions

October 2, 2009 by Tracey 11 Comments

There he sits in the corner chair in my bedroom, his unseeing eyes fixed in place, his red horns never moving.

If you entered our master bedroom, you might wonder why a Christmas reindeer holds court, an apparently out-of-place decoration on this early October morning. He is there out of courtesy to my six-year-old daughter.

You see, some months ago she thought it was important that my husband and I have a stuffed animal to keep us company through the night. It only makes sense in her mind, the child who would sleep with an army of them if I didn’t relegate her to two, that we should have one for our bed, also.

At first, the animals who were given to us each night rotated – an elephant one night, a teddy bear the next. Then somehow we ended up with reindeer. Now he doesn’t return “home” to my daughter’s room each night, but remains in our chair all day.

It’s not that she’s forgotten him, oh no. Every night after bedtime prayers, hugs and kisses, as I leave the room for the final time, she calls, “Do you have reindeer?” My answer is “Yes, I do.”

So as I make the bed today, I glance over and see him there. She is at school, in the midst of reading words and reciting math facts. I am home alone, yet I feel her love, her spirit, her imagination. This small piece of stuffed fabric symbolizes much more than it knows. He is part of the family, a tradition that will linger when his owner has moved beyond stuffed animals, when she no longer holds one in her grasp as she drifts off to sleep.

I hope she doesn’t reclaim him too soon. Our chair will look mighty empty without him.

This post is linked to Your Life, Your Blog, Beautiful Life Friday, Finer Things Friday and Show & Tell Friday.

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Comments

  1. Michelle says

    October 2, 2009 at 2:34 pm

    Love your sweet reindeer for Show & Tell!Your posts are always warm and heartfelt! I hope you will stop by soon and visit me!
    Michelle

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  2. Teresa says

    October 2, 2009 at 3:00 pm

    Sweet post- Love your attitude.
    Thanks for sharing

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  3. Beth says

    October 2, 2009 at 4:51 pm

    Awwwww – that is SO sweet!

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  4. Leann says

    October 2, 2009 at 5:20 pm

    That is sooo sweet. And of course she chose a reindeer to look after you it's almost Christmas;)

    Leann

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  5. { L } says

    October 2, 2009 at 7:05 pm

    This is so precious! How blessed you are. <3

    By the way, I am having my first giveaway on my blog if you're interested!

    http://www.mooreminutes.com/2009/09/pleated-poppy-giveaway.html

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  6. Susan B says

    October 2, 2009 at 8:04 pm

    That is so precious! How sweet of your daughter to "let you" keep him so he can watch over you while you sleep. I have two daughters (who are adults now) that used to sleep with many stuffed animals every night too! When we traveled, they were only allowed to take two with them (and their blankets). Thank you so much for sharing such a sweet story, and reindeer. Have a lovely weekend!

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  7. Amy @ Finer Things says

    October 2, 2009 at 8:35 pm

    How sweet of her to think of you. Don't want anyone to be lonely at night. 😉

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  8. Cindy ~ My Romantic Home says

    October 2, 2009 at 10:23 pm

    Oh that is so touching!!! That is one of the great things about blogging..now this is documented so when she's 20 years old she can read this and remember the reindeer! I wish blogging was around when my kids were little! Thanks so much for joining in on my first time hosting Show and Tell!

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  9. Charlene says

    October 3, 2009 at 12:10 am

    Such a sweet story. They do grow up so soon. Enjoy the reindeer & that sweet little angel that shared her treasure with you.

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  10. ALWAYS THE ABRAMYANS says

    October 3, 2009 at 1:44 am

    I love it! My mom and daughters made me a build-a-bear for my birthday last year and it too sits by my bed… on my nightstand. It's a wonderful reminder of them each and everyday!

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  11. TopazTook says

    October 3, 2009 at 5:51 am

    That is so sweet that she is thinking of you in that way. Stuffed animals are very important — some of us never outgrow them. (I love all the children's books about the secret lives of toys and/or dolls.)

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