- When he walks in the door from work
- When he is leaving in the morning
- When he calls from work during the day
- When his mind is focused on an activity, be it work or hobby-related
- While we are in a public setting
It often takes great self-control (and Holy Spirit help!) to purposely delay what I want to say until a later time. However, one benefit I have found in waiting is that, after further consideration, what I thought was important to say may be better left unsaid.