Teaching Self-Care Skills

We have been discussing fine motor skills for the past two weeks here on Teaching Tuesday. {You can read those posts here and here.}

Today I’d like to give a list of self-care skills that we can teach our children. Each child’s ability will vary, so there is not necessarily a set age at which a skill should be mastered. However, when you think your child is ready to try something new, it’s a good idea to spend just a few minutes a day working on it. Both child and mom can get frustrated if too much time is spent focusing on mastering a skill too quickly.

• • Putting on clothes

• • Snapping

• • Putting on shoes

• • Opening/closing doors (house and car)

• • Buttoning

• • Brushing teeth

• • Zipping

• • Locking/unlocking a door (house and car)

• • Opening/closing lids

• • Brushing and combing hair

• • Buckling/unbuckling a seat belt

• • Bathing

• • Tying

• Pouring (from one container into another)

As we’ve discussed before, the more fun you can make learning, the better it is. There are dolls you can buy that have parts to help your child learn snapping, zipping and buttoning, but your own or your child’s clothes work just as well. Your child can practice pouring by playing with cups and pitchers in the bathtub or kitchen sink.

I’ll go ahead and admit that my six-year-old is not yet tying shoes. In my defense, there’s not one pair of shoes with shoelaces in her closet. Most of her shoes have Velcro closure or are slip-ons; there is one pair of boots that zip up. I do realize that’s not an excuse and plan to tackle tying shoes with her soon. On the other hand, she has almost mastered riding her bike without training wheels!

If you have stories about teaching your children self-care skills, or other ideas to add to the list, please feel free to comment. Check back in next Tuesday as we address beginning numbers skills!