There are days when I feel inadequate as a mother. Perhaps I think of all that I would do with my children if my personality were different or the skills I could teach them if I were more proficient in certain areas.
I was recently encouraged by the following words from Cary Schmidt’s book Passionate Parenting.
“It is no mistake that you are your child’s parent. You are truly God’s gift to your children. You were custom designed by God for their needs, their heart, and their development. You have been equipped in providential ways to be the parent that your kids need….God brought you together by His eternal design, and it’s just right.”
What a wonderful truth, to remember that God gave me the children I needed – and gave them the mother and father that they needed!
On those days when I wonder how to deal with a daughter who’s so much like me – or one who’s totally different – I can rest in the fact that God has made available to me His Word which has all the wisdom I need. Not only that, He’s also given me the physical, emotional, and mental abilities to provide just what will help our daughters grow into the Christian young ladies He desires.
On the other hand, dealing with their unique traits and temperaments works on those difficult spots in my character that need to be refined.
So, moms, on those difficult days, remember – God has given you everything required to be the best mother your kids could ever have!